Margot Robbie Reveals the Movie That Secretly Says a Lot About Men Who Love It

Margot Robbie, in a recent interview, agreed with a Letterboxd user review that claimed: “Women who love this movie are sexy, but men who love this movie cannot be trusted.” Robbie, whose breakout role in The Wolf of Wall Street has been widely praised, says there’s some truth in that caution. When asked, she admitted that if you encounter a man who is obsessed with The Wolf of Wall Street, you might want to take heed. Her co‑star Colin Farrell concurs, joking that the film has “a touch of the Patrick Bateman to it.”

In this article, we explore what Robbie and others said, why The Wolf of Wall Street evokes such strong reactions, and what this reveals about the movie’s cultural impact in 2013 and beyond.

The Film Behind the Debate: The Wolf of Wall Street and Its Cast

The Wolf of Wall Street (directed by Martin Scorsese) is a 2013 biographical crime film starring Leonardo DiCaprio as Jordan Belfort, a real-life stockbroker who engaged in rampant fraud, corruption, and excess on Wall Street before a very public downfall. Margot Robbie plays Naomi Lapaglia, Belfort’s second wife. The film is known for its larger‑than‑life portrayal of greed, moral decay, and wild excess.

Robbie’s performances in the film propelled her into major roles. But it’s the persona surrounding the film—its themes of power, excess, charisma, and permissiveness—that feed into its polarizing status.

The Letterboxd Review That Sparked It

As part of promoting her new film, A Big Bold Beautiful Journey, Margot Robbie appeared with Colin Farrell on Letterboxd in mid‑September 2025. During a segment where they guessed films based on user reviews, a review by “Mya” stood out. It read: “Women who love this movie are sexy, but men who love this movie cannot be trusted.” Robbie immediately recognized this description was about The Wolf of Wall Street. Her reaction was amused but also somewhat reflective.

Robbie said, “She’s not wrong.” She agreed with the review, noting that she even has a male friend who listens to Jordan Belfort’s hype speeches from the film before going into work—something Robbie finds both amusing and a little worrisome. Colin Farrell, for his part, chimed in with agreement, adding that the character of Jordan Belfort, as played by DiCaprio, has a “touch of the Patrick Bateman to it”—a reference to the infamous fictional character from American Psycho, known for narcissism, violence, and controlling personality traits.

Why the Warning Resonates

There are several reasons why a movie like The Wolf of Wall Street attracts this kind of commentary:

The Glamour of Excess

The film revels in showcasing excess: luxury yachts, wild parties, obscene wealth, the drug culture, and the promise of high reward. That glamour is seductive, which means viewers may admire, instead of critically examine, what the film displays.

Moral Ambiguity and Charm

Jordan Belfort is charismatic. He lies, cheats, manipulates, but the film doesn’t paint him entirely black. His charm, wit, and energy make him appealing. Robbie’s warning is about men who may adopt the charisma without the moral self‑awareness.

Cultural Conversations About “Red Flags”

In recent years, The Wolf of Wall Street has become something of a shorthand in popular culture. If someone says “that movie is their favorite,” it sometimes implies certain personality traits—ambition, risk‑taking, sometimes ethical ambiguity. Robbie, by agreeing with the warning, acknowledges that popular perception.

Robbie’s Perspective on Her Own Role

Even while cautioning about admiration for The Wolf of Wall Street, Margot Robbie remains proud of the film. She described the experience of making it as “chaotic in the best way possible.” She called the production insane in a good way. She believes that the final product was “brilliant.”

Robbie noted that working under Martin Scorsese was intense. The set was over the top, the performances larger than life, and the film’s themes challenging. Yet this intensity helped cement Robbie’s reputation as a serious actress, willing to inhabit roles that are imperfect and provocative.

The Colin Farrell Note: Patrick Bateman and Comparison

During the same conversation, Colin Farrell made a comparative remark. He said “It’s got a touch of the Patrick Bateman to it.” For context, Patrick Bateman is the main character of American Psycho—a fictional antihero known for narcissism, sociopathy, and a distorted moral compass. Farrell’s remark suggests that The Wolf of Wall Street shares some traits with characters who are alluring but deeply flawed.

This comparison elevates the warning even higher: not just about men who seem to love the movie superficially, but about the kind of values or mindsets that might be glamorized or adopted by people who take inspiration from Belfort’s unapologetic pursuit of self and power.

Cultural Impact and Reactions

Since its release in 2013, The Wolf of Wall Street has remained a subject of cultural debates. Some view it as a critique of excess and greed, others see it as a problematic complaint about how certain behaviors are romanticized.

Robbie’s recent remarks tap into an ongoing conversation:

• How do films influence behavior and values?

• When does admiration become idolization?

• Can someone enjoy a film without endorsing its darker elements?

By speaking publicly, Margot Robbie acknowledges that art doesn’t exist in a vacuum. The audience’s relationship with film—how they interpret and internalize it—matters.

What This Means for Viewers

For casual movie watchers, Robbie’s warning is more of a fun caution than a strict rule. It suggests awareness: pay attention to how much someone’s admiration for such films is more than just entertainment. Is it admiration mixed with idealization? Is it a red flag if someone uses phrases from the movie or quotes Jordan Belfort’s speeches to hype themselves?

For fans of Robbie, DiCaprio, Scorsese, this conversation enriches how they think about the film. It isn’t just about impressive acting and bold scenes—it’s also about themes, consequences, reflections of real life.

The Legacy of The Wolf of Wall Street and Robbie’s Evolving Career

Since 2013, Margot Robbie has leaned into a variety of roles. She has chosen parts that are complex, varied, and sometimes controversial. From commercial blockbusters to critically acclaimed dramas, she has shown range.

Her participation in conversations like the one about The Wolf of Wall Street reveals her thoughtful approach to her own work. She recognizes both the power and the responsibility that come with being associated with films that provoke strong reactions.

Conclusion: Admiration with Awareness

Ultimately, what Margot Robbie and Colin Farrell offer is not condemnation but perspective. To love The Wolf of Wall Street is fine—but to love it unquestioningly might be something to look at more closely. Robbie’s quote, “Guys who love this movie, you should be careful with,” in September 2025 is not just humor—it’s a prompt to reflect.

The Wolf of Wall Street remains a film that entertains, shocks, and challenges. Margot Robbie’s agreement with the idea that the film might serve as a red flag in certain cases adds another layer to its legacy: one where movies influence culture, identity, and interpersonal perceptions.